To lose at love is to gain existential elegance because the loss was grounded on giving your heart away with faith in reciprocity. Pain of unrequited love roams deep in shades of disillusionment, heralded by dreams of redemption that never materialize.
Paradoxically, as poetics goes, the best protection from losing at love again - is to love again. Each time, with greater commitment to discover what your new love admires in you that you deny to yourself. Then the journey of love advances from winning or losing, to nourishing your soul.
Such is the way of the Drift...
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