Emotions can be misleading when void of rational balance. Imagine sadness from missing someone who no longer cares for you? The initial sadness is necessary to mourn the loss. But if allowed to persist, sadness must be recontextualized from what it has become. The hopelessness of hidden anger for insisting on making someone what they are not.
The recontextualizing is a mindbody process to liberate sadness from the loss, and anger from the attachment, using the power of courageous relinquishment. But first, value your place in time for the commitment, honor, and loyalty you choose to enact when taunted by the world of vulgar eyes. The gained worthiness will free you to see people for who they are rather than what you want them to be. Never invest in turning a couch into a lamp because the change will only take place in your mind.
Such is the way of the Drift...
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